Having worked in the mental health and well being arena for so long, I’ve seen the power of journaling on the mind. Capturing thoughts feelings, gratitude helps when reflecting back to learn to go forward.
But what if you are incapacitated and can’t journal? Luckily for Mandy she had great nurses who went the extra mile to ensure when she recovered she could ‘fill in the gaps’ on the time lost through being in a coma.
93 days is a long time to miss from our lives. We know how frustrating it is the morning after the night before not remembering what we said, did or where we were. That’s just one night’s loss of memory through over indulgence. But what about longer gaps like Mandy experienced through Covid-19?
The nurses started journaling each day for Mandy to read when she recovered.
Short entries but with powerful messages. Now Mandy is home and starting the long recovering back to fitness without the worrying gap of those 93 days.
How amazing are our nurses?
Flicking through the Sunday Papers yesterday I came across ‘………..the PM puts the nation on a diet’.
The feature is about reducing obesity through bariatric surgery. It’s long been known that people come to the point of obesity through a number of reasons all including some form of relationship with food – eating for comfort, boredom etc.
For some morbidly obese people, I can see this invasive surgical procedure could be a lifeline but is it right that investment for research into diseases, education, housing etc is diverted into bariatric surgery? People have got to take responsibility for their own actions. Very few need additional help and support – which those few rightly deserve. A bit like some people who are really depressed will need medication to get to a point where they can change their mindset and not feel so clobbered that they can’t do anything.
I just wonder if we’ve become a nation where our actions are someone’s else’s fault. We justify our behaviour due to a raft of excuses such as poor upbringing, lack of parental guidance etc.
Seeing the litter left on beaches after people ignored lockdown rules because the weather was so nice. It’s one thing to ignore lockdown but is there a reason you can’t pack up your rubbish and take it home?
Isn’t it time we all took responsibility for our actions, thought before we acted/speak and treated ourselves and those around us with a little more kindness? The bonus is these things don’t cost anything!